I'm just a girl in this wide world trying to find my place. A lot of this journey is about overcoming my issues, but I post about a wide variety of things.

Come sit down for awhile, keep me company, I'm sure we can find something to keep us entertained.


In one year I’ll be 40

Another year down. Happy father’s day to those that are celebrating my birthday that way. 😊

Updating from a real computer

Not just from my phone. So less likely to make fat finger spelling errors. Lots has been happening in life, things I want to share, but can’t just now.

Things are changing, and are rather exciting. I am busting to share, but timing is everything. Soon my lovelies, soon. Then I can unleash the excitement :)

Hi all

Just thought I’d drop by and say hi. I am still around as some would know. I do stalk you all. I just haven’t really had much that I can share.

So this is just a check in to say I’m alive.


Liana made some little chronic illness slogan graphics that she thought might be helpful for people who have such illnesses to have on standby for facebook/tumblr/etc, or to print out to hand to people when explaining to yet another person is just too much!

#lellaprincesspants thought this might interest you.



Marvel’s Guardians of the Galaxy - Dancing Groot

“Baby Groot dancing is 100 percent me. I was too embarrassed for anyone to be there, so I made everyone leave the room and I set up a camera and I videotaped myself dancing. Then I sent the video to the animators and had them animate over that. I begged them not to leak the video! Two of my closest friends came to an early screening and said ‘Hey, I recognize those moves! That’s you dancing isn’t it?!’” - Vin Diesel

escapingmidnight asked
Hello! It’s Alexandria. I was wondering if you could share this with your followers so that we can help more people? I help run a blog called mental-health-advice. We give advice on all mental health related issues such as self-harm, eating disorders, specific illnesses, as well as relationship, gender & sexuality issues. We have a live chat & dozens of informative pages. Make sure that if you do follow, it is on mental-health-advice rather than this (my personal) Thank you <3

Just a little something out there for anyone that might need it.


let me just say a few things about ‘all about that bass’ real quick

  1. it’s a song about body positivity and we don’t get many of those so can we just take that into consideration please
  2. i know people are kicking off about her using the phrase “skinny bitches” but she does follow it up with "no, i’m just playing i know you think you’re fat / but i’m here to tell you that / every inch of you is perfect from the bottom to the top"  she’s taken an insult commonly given to slim women and basically a said so what if you are skinny/skinny but you think you’re fat, YOU’RE STILL PERFECT 
  3. i’ve seen shit loads of people saying it makes them feel more confident, and slim women get a ton of media reinforcing the idea that their body is perfect anyway